From: Brad Hambrick [crossroads@knology.net]
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August 2005
There is no small debate over what the Bible teaches concerning the role of men and women. This debate persists with reference to the family and the church. Dorothy Patterson, in the guest contributor section, answers many of the objections raised against evangelicals on this position. Her objective is to offer a biblical definition of womanhood. Dorothy Patterson is Professor of Theology in Women's Studies at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. This article was originally written for publication by the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.

The content of this newsletter includes:

  • Lies Versus Truth: The Question is Biblical Womanhood -- by Dorothy Patterson
  • The Final Step in Redeeming Suffering -- by Brad Hambrick
  • Diagnosing the Heart: An Examination of Anger -- by Brad Senter
  • SAVE THE DATE: The Conference on Biblical Psychology 2006
  • READER REPONSE: Let Us Hear From You

Lies Versus Truth: The Question is Biblical Womanhood
Dorothy Patterson   Guest Contributor Article patterson
Lee Grady, a former Southern Baptist who now edits Charisma magazine, appealed to the Southern Baptist Convention, in June 2001, to rescind changes to the Baptist Faith and Message enacted at annual meetings in 1998 and 2000. Interestingly, he has tied this request to circulation of his book entitled Ten Lies the Church Tells Women. In reading through the volume, I find that, at least in Grady's mind, Southern Baptists are the major antagonists for oppressing women.

Let me first give you my own presuppositions: · Truth is the divine standard expressed in the written Word of God. · Scripture, the Bible in its entirety is what Francis Schaeffer called "true truth." As such, Scripture says what it means (God-breathed through the Holy Spirit) and means what it says (God- mandated for all generations). · The church is described in the New Testament as the Bride of Christ, and this body of believers is precious indeed to the Lord Christ, but I do not look to ecclesiastical authority as surpassing or even equal to biblical authority. The same is true of pastors, however godly and orthodox. With Luther I would hold to sola Scriptura.

With these guidelines, I would like to respond to Mr. Grady with Ten Truths the Bible Tells Women. In doing so, I will try to interact with Grady's Ten Lies so that the women who wish to have different viewpoints before them in wrestling with these issues can do so.

The Final Step of Redeeming Suffering
Brad Hambrick   A Believer's Response to Suffering III redemption
Susan sat back amazed at what God had done in the last ten months. That treacherous night was just less than a year ago. A man, who had been stalking her for months, broke into Susan's house, raped her, and ran off into the night. The violation was only part of the suffering. There was getting tested for STD's and pregnancy, insomnia, anxiety attacks, and social phobia from walking through crowds wondering "Is that him?"

Susan is doing remarkably well. All tests came back negative. She is averaging seven hours of continuous sleep a night. Through counseling she has not had a panic attack in three months and she is able to enjoy shopping at the mall again. Susan has even resolved many of her hard questions concerning God's providence and protection. Life is back to "normal." Yet it does not seem like the process is complete. She had heard people speak of closure, but for her, life just seems to be picking up where it left off.

Anger
Brad Senter   argue
Fred and Cindy seemed like a better than average, church-going couple. They were in their late twenties and had been married about six years. Fred was in pharmaceutical sales and Cindy worked as a paralegal at a prominent law firm in town. They were attractive and seemed to be totally matched for one another.

Late one Tuesday evening Cindy admitted to a close friend that she and Fred were separating from each other. His angry temper had become completely out of control. In the past, Cindy would compose herself and put on a happy face for everyone to see. She did this because she believed it was the “right thing to do.” Cindy was a Christian. In fact, she was quite honorable in her interactions with Fred despite his behavior toward her. She loved him. She wanted to respect him. But, she was afraid of him.

Fred’s temper was not under control. But, not totally out of control either. The doctors and nurses that Fred would interact with would never suspect him of being an angry man. The members of his Sunday School class would be shocked if they heard how he spoke to his wife. Even his parent’s were unaware. For some reason Cindy was left to bear the full brunt of Fred’s anger. Of course while he was venting he would accuse Cindy of bringing out the worst in him. He would blame his outbursts on her inattention, lack of household cleanliness, sexual distance, or on her family. Fred had never resorted to violence. His vice was a quick temper with a very sharp tongue.

SAVE THE DATE: Conference on Biblical Psychology 2006
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We are excited to announce that we have secured the plenary speaker and a conference theme for 2006. Dr. Edward T. Welch, counselor with the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation (CCEF) and prolific author, will be presenting his material entitled Blame it on the Brain? The date for this years conference will be April 29, 2006. Dr. Welch will be preaching in the morning services on the 30th of April at the First Presbyterian Church of Augusta (PCA).

This year's conference will be taking on a new format. In prior years, the conference has been a two day event with open registration. The 2006 conference will be a one day event with a limitted number of tickets. As always, there will be both plenary sessions and workshops. The single day format is designed to accomodate scheduling ease, baby sitting arrangements (child-care is not provided), and travel efficiency for out-of-towners.

Tickets will be $50.00 per person. If you or your church would like to reserve a priority place on the registration list for this year's conference please e-mail Brad Hambrick with the following information: (1) name; (2) mailing address; (3) phone number; (4) name of your church; and (5) the number of tickets you expect to reserve at the link provided below. We are excited about this year's conference and look forward to seeing you there.

Let Us Hear From You
 
This newsletter is intended to be an instrument to strengthen the Body of Christ in the CSRA and anyone else who receives this newsletter. In order to accomplish this task most effectively, it is beneficial to hear from our readers. There are several types of correspondance that would be most helpful.

  • Topics that you would like to see addressed in future articles.
  • Articles and/or sermon transcripts you have prepared on a counseling related subject and would like to submit for publication.
  • Anonymous testimonies of how God has brought you through difficult life circumstances [see article "The Final Step for Redeeming Suffering"]

We look forward to hearing from you and reading the material you provide. If you would like to submit material or a article topic, please contact Brad Hambrick through the link provided below.


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